Natures, Kingdoms and Wills
We are in the middle of two conflicting wills: who's will will we conform to?
Satan's will is a lie, which result is in sin, to death; God's will is obedience unto righteousness, which results in holiness, to eternal life.
We should chose eternal life. If we hate ourselves, we will continue to please ourselves in sin.
We're all born into sin through Adam; but in Christ, we've been made new. Cross over into life through Jesus Christ.